If you follow me on Facebook, you would see my status is "A successful marriage requires falling in love many times, always with the same person." A lot of times life gets in the way and we lose sight of our marriage. Maybe you just had a baby, your spouse was having a relationship on the side, or your job is requiring A LOT of hours each week. I know all three of these things have put our marriage of the rocks. Not all at the same time of course, but we have worked through our problems and manage to fall in love all over again. I know some things take time to heal, marriages can not be fixed in a day. It may take weeks, months, or even years if you are willing to stick if out.
This weekend Brian's cousin got married, as I watched them take their vows I went back six years ago to our wedding day. It still brings tears to my eyes when I think about our vows and how Brian was the one who started to cry first. Never in a million years would I have thought he would have been emotional about this. (He shows no emotion). Anyway, my point is, don't push your marriage aside. Love your spouse the way you did when you married them. Remember what it was that made you fall in love with them because "Falling in love rocks!"